Behavior Quote by Selma Fraiberg
“A method of child-rearing is not--or should not be--a whim, a fashion or a shibboleth. It should derive from an understanding of the developing child, of his physical and mental equipment at any given stage, and, therefore, his readiness at any given stage to adapt, to learn, to regulate his behavior according to parental expectations.”
About This Quote
Effective parenting must be grounded in the child's developmental stage and capacities, not in fleeting trends or rigid doctrines.
In simple terms: Parenting based on child development, not fashion.
Key Takeaway
Align parenting with child's readiness.
Themes
developmental psychology
parenting philosophy
child readiness
behavior regulation
adaptive learning
Mood
thoughtful
empathetic
pragmatic
Type
advice
observation
philosophical
When to use this quote
- new parents seeking guidance
- educators designing curricula
- counselors advising families
- policy makers crafting child welfare standards
Key Concepts
developmental stages
parental expectations
behavioral regulation
Practical Applications
- designing age-appropriate parenting programs
- informing child development curricula
Questions to Reflect On
- How can parents assess a child's readiness for new expectations?
- What signs indicate a child is adapting well to parental guidance?
