Accompany Quote by Selma Fraiberg
“Parents who want a fresh point of view on their furniture are advised to drop down on all fours and accompany the nine or ten month old on his rounds. It is probably many years since you last studied the underside of a dining room chair. The ten month old will study this marvel with as much concentration and reverence as a tourist in the Cathedral of Chartres.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Emotional Life of the Toddler, Selma Fraiberg, 1975
Adults can learn new perspectives by literally seeing the world from a child's eye level, revealing hidden details and wonder.
In simple terms: Seeing from a child's height reveals new details.
Key Takeaway
Get down, observe, and learn.
Themes
parenting
perspective
curiosity
learning
Mood
playful
reflective
Type
advice
observational
When to use this quote
- home design
- childcare routines
- family bonding
- educational play
Key Concepts
developmental psychology
embodied cognition
mindful observation
Questions to Reflect On
- How might changing your viewpoint alter your parenting?
- What details do you miss when standing upright?
A Different Perspective
Children may not always understand safety or boundaries, so adult guidance remains essential.
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