Behavior Quote by Lewis Thomas
““We are endowed with genes which code out our reaction to beavers and otters, maybe our reaction to each other as well. We are stamped with stereotyped, unalterable patterns of response, ready to be released. And the behavior released in us, by such confrontations, is, essentially, a surprised affection. It is compulsory behavior and we can avoid it only by straining with the full power of our conscious minds, making up conscious excuses all the way. Left to ourselves, mechanistic and autonomic, we hanker for friends.””
About This Quote
Human behavior is driven by deep‑rooted genetic programs that surface in social interactions, producing instinctive affection that we can only suppress through conscious effort.
In simple terms: Innate patterns generate automatic social bonds.
Conscious control can curb instinctual affinity.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- team building
- conflict mediation
- relationship counseling
- personal growth workshops
- creative collaboration
Key Concepts
Practical Applications
- behavioral design
- mindfulness training
Questions to Reflect On
- What role does awareness play in overriding innate social drives?
- Can we redesign our instinctual responses through training?
Some argue that cultural learning can reshape these patterns more than genetics.