Friendship Quote by Sarah Waters
““Was this, she thought, what happened when one made friends with a married woman? One automatically got the husband too? - like a crochet pattern, coming free with a magazine?””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Tipping the Velvet by Sarah Waters, 1998
The narrator reflects on the unexpected consequences of befriending a married woman, suggesting intimacy can extend beyond the individual.
In simple terms: Making friends with a married woman may bring her husband into the picture.
Key Takeaway
Beware of hidden relational complexities.
Themes
friendship
relationships
boundaries
social expectations
Mood
reflective
cautious
Type
observational
literary
When to use this quote
- dating
- social circles
- friendship decisions
- navigating complex relationships
Key Concepts
intimacy
social dynamics
unexpected consequences
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you set clear boundaries when friendships blur personal lines?
- What expectations do you have about involving partners in friendships?
A Different Perspective
Assumes all married women’s partners are accessible, which may not hold true.
