Marriage Quote by Rudyard Kipling
“You may write it on his tombstone, You may cut it on his card, That a young man married is a young man marred”
About This Quote
Source Poem: “The Ballad of East and West” (excerpt), 1889
The lines suggest that a young man’s marriage tarnishes his youth, implying that commitment changes one’s identity.
In simple terms: Marriage can be seen as marring youthful freedom.
Key Takeaway
Reflect on how life changes affect identity.
Themes
identity
marriage
youth
societal expectations
change
Mood
nostalgic
reflective
Type
poetic
cautionary
When to use this quote
- wedding planning
- career transition
- midlife reflection
- cultural tradition
- relationship counseling
Key Concepts
ritual
social contract
personal growth
Questions to Reflect On
- Does marriage always diminish youth?
- What new strengths can marriage bring?
A Different Perspective
It may ignore positive aspects of maturity.
![“I don't like being away from home. That's one reason why I don't work as much as I used to [when I started my career], because so many things are on the road. I just don't want to be away from my husband, my dogs and my home. I don't sing that much any more because that also takes you on the road.” quote by Jane Powell](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/07c/jane-powell-36243_away_i-don-t-like-being-away-from-home-that-s_278.jpg)
