Child Quote by Ross W. Greene
“The vast majority of things parents and kids get in conflict over are highly predictable. We're disagreeing about the same expectations the kid is having difficulty meeting every hour, every day, every week. Because it's predictable, we can have these conversations proactively. That is very hard for people.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Explosive Child, 2000
Conflicts between parents and children often stem from predictable unmet expectations, so proactive discussion can prevent recurring disputes.
In simple terms: Kids and parents clash over predictable expectations; talk early to avoid fights.
Key Takeaway
Address expectations before they become crises.
Themes
parenting
communication
conflict resolution
Mood
frustrated
hopeful
Type
advice
practical
When to use this quote
- family meetings
- daily check‑ins
- school‑home coordination
Key Concepts
predictability
expectations
proactive dialogue
Questions to Reflect On
- What expectations are repeatedly unmet?
- How can you raise the issue without blame?
A Different Perspective
People may resist early conversations due to discomfort or denial.
