Behavior Quote by Ross W. Greene
“When there's a good fit between skills and expectations, there's what we call compatibility, and we would expect a good outcome. When there's a poor fit between expectations and the capacity of the kid, there is incompatibility, and that's when we see people exhibit challenging behavior.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Explosive Child, 2006
Compatibility between abilities and expectations leads to positive outcomes; mismatch causes challenging behavior.
In simple terms: Fit leads to success; mismatch leads to problems.
Key Takeaway
Align expectations with abilities.
Themes
development
education
behavior
Mood
thoughtful
analytical
Type
educational
practical
When to use this quote
- parenting
- teaching
- coaching
- team leadership
Key Concepts
psychology
expectation management
Questions to Reflect On
- How can I assess true capacity?
- What supports help bridge gaps?
A Different Perspective
Complex issues may need more than just fit adjustment.
