Capable Quote by Ross W. Greene
“We never get to see that our kid is capable of solving problems on her own. We never start to build up the faith that they can actually do it.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Explosive Child by Ross W. Greene, 1998
Parents often doubt children's ability to solve problems independently, limiting their confidence and growth.
In simple terms: Parents underestimate kids’ problem‑solving skills.
Trust kids to figure things out.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- parent‑child conversations
- school projects
- home chores
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you encourage autonomy while staying supportive?
- What small tasks can you let your child handle alone?
Children still need guidance and safety nets; over‑reliance can backfire.