Death Quote by Rollo May
““For death is always in the shadow of the delight of love. In faint adumbration there is present the dread, haunting question, Will this new relationship destroy us?...The world is annihilated; how can we know whether it will ever be built up again? We give, and give up, our own center; how shall we know that we will get it back?... This...has something in common with the ecstasy of the mystic in his union with God: just as he can never be //sure// God is there, so love carries us to that intensity of consciousness in which we no longer have any guarantee of security.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Love and Will, Rollo May, 1969
Love brings both deep joy and profound uncertainty, making us vulnerable to loss and existential doubt.
In simple terms: Love is joyful but risky.
Key Takeaway
Embrace love while staying aware of its uncertainty.
Themes
love
existentialism
vulnerability
joy
uncertainty
Mood
reflective
melancholic
hopeful
Type
philosophical
emotional
insightful
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- friendships
- spiritual quests
- creative collaborations
Key Concepts
psychology
existential philosophy
attachment
intimacy
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance love’s joy with its risks?
- What safeguards protect your sense of self in deep relationships?
A Different Perspective
Love’s intensity can lead to dependency or neglect of self‑care.
