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Capacity Quote by Rollo May

“We receive love — from our children as well as others — not in proportion to our demands or sacrifices or needs, but roughly in proportion to our own capacity to love.” quote by Rollo May
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“We receive love — from our children as well as others — not in proportion to our demands or sacrifices or needs, but roughly in proportion to our own capacity to love.”

Rollo May

About This Quote

Love received mirrors our own capacity to love, not our demands or sacrifices.

In simple terms: We get love based on how much we give love.

Key Takeaway

Expand your ability to love to receive more.

Themes

love reciprocity self-awareness

Mood

hopeful introspective

Type

psychological motivational

When to use this quote

  • family relationships
  • friendships
  • community building
  • therapy

Key Concepts

empathy emotional intelligence

Questions to Reflect On

  • What limits your capacity to love?
  • How can you cultivate more unconditional love?
A Different Perspective

If you love selfishly, love may feel scarce.

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