Divorce Quote by Randi Kreger
““When a divorce is initiated, regardless of who files with the court, blamers particularly feel threatened. Many cannot handle seeming in any way responsible for the divorce, which triggers their lifelong fears of abandonment and inferiority. Therefore, they split their partner into all bad. It feels like a war between good and evil to blamers, so they create one. Their extreme feelings create their own problems.””
About This Quote
Source Article: Divorce Dynamics, 2018
Blamers in divorce externalize fear by casting partners as evil, creating conflict and personal problems.
In simple terms: Blamers turn divorce into a war, blaming partners.
Key Takeaway
Recognize projection to avoid conflict.
Themes
psychology
relationships
conflict
Mood
introspective
empathetic
Type
therapeutic
analytical
When to use this quote
- counseling
- mediation
- personal growth
Key Concepts
attachment theory
self‑esteem
family dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we blame others in crises?
- How can we break the blame cycle?
A Different Perspective
Projection may not fully explain all behaviors.
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