Approval Quote by Rachel Naomi Remen
“To seek approval is to have no resting place, no sanctuary. Like all judgement, approval encourages a constant striving. It makes us uncertain of who we are and of our true value. Approval cannot be trusted. It can be withdrawn at any time no matter what our track record has been. It is as nourishing of real growth as cotton candy. Yet many of us spend our lives pursuing it.”
About This Quote
Seeking others’ approval creates perpetual insecurity and hinders authentic growth, as approval is fleeting and unreliable, yet many chase it.
In simple terms: Chasing approval leads to insecurity and stunted growth.
Avoid reliance on external validation.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal development
- mindfulness
- career decisions
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you cultivate internal validation?
- What practices foster self‑acceptance?
Approval can be manipulated or withdrawn unpredictably.