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Coastal Quote by Philip Larkin

“Man hands on misery to man. It deepens like a coastal shelf. Get out as early as you can, and don't have any kids yourself.” quote by Philip Larkin
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“Man hands on misery to man. It deepens like a coastal shelf. Get out as early as you can, and don't have any kids yourself.”

Philip Larkin

About This Quote

Source Poem: “The Whitsun Weddings” by Philip Larkin, 1964

The quote warns that misery spreads from person to person, deepening over time, and suggests avoiding parenthood to prevent passing it on.

In simple terms: Misery spreads; avoid having kids to stop the cycle.

Key Takeaway

Consider the impact of your choices on future generations.

Themes

misery inheritance family responsibility

Mood

somber reflective

Type

cautionary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationship choices
  • family planning
  • mental health
  • social policy

Key Concepts

social contagion intergenerational trauma existentialism

Questions to Reflect On

  • Can you break the cycle of misery?
  • What responsibilities do we have to future generations?
A Different Perspective

It assumes all parents inevitably transmit misery, ignoring positive influences.

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