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Choice Quote by Pema Chodron

“We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can't relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.” quote by Pema Chodron
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“We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can't relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.”

Pema Chodron

About This Quote

Source Book: The Wisdom of No Escape, Pema Chodron, 2015

We can either cling to suffering by resisting reality or find peace by accepting life's open‑ended, unbiased nature.

In simple terms: Choose acceptance over resistance.

Key Takeaway

Embrace openness, release suffering.

Themes

acceptance mindfulness existentialism

Mood

calm reflective

Type

spiritual philosophical

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • meditation practice
  • daily stress
  • relationship conflicts

Key Concepts

non‑attachment impermanence human condition

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does openness mean to you?
  • How can you balance acceptance with action?
A Different Perspective

Acceptance may feel passive and ignore necessary change.

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