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“Maybe the most important teaching is to lighten up and relax. It's such a huge help in working with our crazy mixed-up minds to remember that what we're doing is unlocking a softness that is in us and letting it spread. We're letting it blur the sharp corners of self-criticism and complaint.” quote by Pema Chodron
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“Maybe the most important teaching is to lighten up and relax. It's such a huge help in working with our crazy mixed-up minds to remember that what we're doing is unlocking a softness that is in us and letting it spread. We're letting it blur the sharp corners of self-criticism and complaint.”

Pema Chodron

About This Quote

Source Book: When Things Fall Apart, Pema Chodron, 1996

Relaxation eases mental tension, allowing inner softness to soften self‑criticism and foster compassion.

In simple terms: Relax to soften inner harshness.

Key Takeaway

Practice gentle awareness.

Themes

mindfulness self‑compassion mental health

Mood

calm hopeful

Type

inspirational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • stressful work
  • personal growth
  • therapy sessions
  • creative projects

Key Concepts

Buddhist psychology emotional regulation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you cultivate softness daily?
  • What self‑criticism patterns soften?
A Different Perspective

Relaxation alone may not address deep‑seated trauma.

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