Accomplishing anything Quote by Pema Chodron
“We can stop struggling with what occurs and see its true face without calling it the enemy. It helps to remember that our spiritual practice is not about accomplishing anything - not about winning or losing - but about ceasing to struggle and relaxing as it is. That is what we are doing when we sit down to meditate. That attitude spreads into the rest of our lives.”
About This Quote
Source Book: When Things Fall Apart, Pema Chodron, 1996
Accepting reality without labeling it as an enemy reduces inner conflict and fosters calm mindfulness.
In simple terms: Seeing things as they are, not as foes, eases struggle.
Practice non‑judgmental awareness.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- daily meditation
- stressful workday
- conflict resolution
- healthcare settings
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you notice resistance without resisting?
- What does “relaxing as it is” feel like in daily life?
May lead to passive acceptance of harmful situations.