Attention Quote by Pema Chodron
“Rather than going after our walls and barriers with a sledgehammer, we pay attention to them. With gentleness and honesty, we move closer to those walls. We touch them and smell them and get to know them well. We begin a process of acknowledging our aversions and our cravings. We become familiar with the strategies and beliefs we use to build the walls: What are the stories I tell myself? What repels me and what attracts me? We start to get curious about what’s going on.”
About This Quote
Instead of forcefully tearing down personal barriers, we should approach them with curiosity and honesty to understand their origins and influence.
In simple terms: Gentle inquiry into personal walls.
Explore inner barriers calmly.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal development
- conflict resolution
- therapy
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What stories do you tell about your limits?
- How can gentleness transform resistance?
Walls may reappear if not fully integrated.