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Attention Quote by Pema Chodron

“Rather than going after our walls and barriers with a sledgehammer, we pay attention to them. With gentleness and honesty, we move closer to those walls. We touch them and smell them and get to know them well. We begin a process of acknowledging our aversions and our cravings. We become familiar…” quote by Pema Chodron
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“Rather than going after our walls and barriers with a sledgehammer, we pay attention to them. With gentleness and honesty, we move closer to those walls. We touch them and smell them and get to know them well. We begin a process of acknowledging our aversions and our cravings. We become familiar with the strategies and beliefs we use to build the walls: What are the stories I tell myself? What repels me and what attracts me? We start to get curious about what’s going on.”

Pema Chodron

About This Quote

Instead of forcefully tearing down personal barriers, we should approach them with curiosity and honesty to understand their origins and influence.

In simple terms: Gentle inquiry into personal walls.

Key Takeaway

Explore inner barriers calmly.

Themes

self-awareness compassion growth

Mood

calm introspective

Type

spiritual psychological

When to use this quote

  • personal development
  • conflict resolution
  • therapy

Key Concepts

mindfulness psychology spiritual practice

Questions to Reflect On

  • What stories do you tell about your limits?
  • How can gentleness transform resistance?
A Different Perspective

Walls may reappear if not fully integrated.

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