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Anger Quote by Pema Chodron

“An emotion like anger that's an automatic response lasts just ninety seconds from the moment it's triggered until it runs its course. One and a half minutes, that's all. When it lasts any longer, which it usually does, it's because we've chosen to rekindle it.” quote by Pema Chodron
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““An emotion like anger that's an automatic response lasts just ninety seconds from the moment it's triggered until it runs its course. One and a half minutes, that's all. When it lasts any longer, which it usually does, it's because we've chosen to rekindle it.””

Pema Chodron

About This Quote

Anger naturally fades within about ninety seconds; extending it is a conscious choice to keep it alive.

In simple terms: Anger is brief unless we keep it going.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and release anger promptly.

Themes

emotion mindfulness self‑control psychology

Mood

reflective calm

Type

self‑help mindful

When to use this quote

  • conflict resolution
  • stress management
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

impermanence choice

Questions to Reflect On

  • What triggers you to prolong anger?
  • How can you let it pass naturally?
A Different Perspective

Holding anger may feel justified but harms wellbeing.

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