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“Indifference is the saddest state of being. It's like PTSD - you're not gonna fight, you're not gonna run, you're just frozen there, feeling nothing. It's very easy to have conversations when you're sitting there feeling nothing, to talk about the weather or what you had for lunch, to Instagram…” quote by Ottessa Moshfegh
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“Indifference is the saddest state of being. It's like PTSD - you're not gonna fight, you're not gonna run, you're just frozen there, feeling nothing. It's very easy to have conversations when you're sitting there feeling nothing, to talk about the weather or what you had for lunch, to Instagram what you had for lunch. We're all suffering from trauma. This world is so crazy. How do we feel safe here? I think that's the question everybody's asking, "What do I need to do to feel safe? Like I'm okay?" I don't think there's anything wrong with that.”

Ottessa Moshfegh

About This Quote

Source Interview: The New Yorker, 2023

Indifference is a protective numbness that masks deep trauma, preventing both action and genuine connection.

In simple terms: Numbness hides pain and stops us from acting.

Key Takeaway

Recognize numbness and seek healing.

Themes

trauma indifference psychological safety connection

Mood

reflective somber thoughtful

Type

observational cautionary

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • therapy sessions
  • social media interactions
  • public discourse
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

Numbness protective mechanisms emotional avoidance

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does numbness affect your relationships?
  • What steps can break the freeze?
A Different Perspective

Numbness can become chronic, hindering growth and empathy.

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