Business Quote by Matt Ridley
“We consciously decide whether to consider people; we fall in love despite ourselves; we entirely fail to fall in love with people who fall in love with us. It is a mightily complicated business.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Origins of Virtue by Matt Ridley, 1996
Human relationships are complex; we choose who we notice, love despite rational control, and often miss those who love us.
In simple terms: Love is messy and often irrational.
Key Takeaway
Beware of overlooking mutual affection.
Themes
relationships
choice
love
complexity
Mood
reflective
melancholic
Type
observational
philosophical
When to use this quote
- dating
- friendship
- workplace interactions
- family gatherings
Key Concepts
psychology
social dynamics
cognitive bias
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you prioritize your own preferences over mutual affection?
- How can you become more open to love offered by others?
A Different Perspective
People may not recognize love when it’s reciprocated.
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