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Civility Quote by Mason Cooley

“People who expect deference resent mere civility.” quote by Mason Cooley
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“People who expect deference resent mere civility.”

Mason Cooley

About This Quote

Source Essay: The Art of Living, 1972

Demanding respect can cause people to reject basic courtesy.

In simple terms: Expecting deference breeds resentment.

Key Takeaway

Offer respect without demanding it.

Themes

respect civility social norms

Mood

calm thoughtful

Type

advisory philosophical

When to use this quote

  • workplace
  • family
  • public service
  • education

Key Concepts

psychology etiquette

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you show respect naturally?
  • What triggers resentment in you?
A Different Perspective

Insisting on deference can alienate others.

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