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Being human Quote by Marya Hornbacher

“In her presence, I was reminded again of why I was an anoretic: fear. Of my needs, for food, for sleep, for touch, for simple conversation, for human contact, for love. I was an anoretic because I was afraid of being human. Implicit in human contact is the exposure of the self, the interaction of…” quote by Marya Hornbacher
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“In her presence, I was reminded again of why I was an anoretic: fear. Of my needs, for food, for sleep, for touch, for simple conversation, for human contact, for love. I was an anoretic because I was afraid of being human. Implicit in human contact is the exposure of the self, the interaction of the selves. The self I'd had, once upon a time, was too much. Now there was no self at all. I was a blank.”

Marya Hornbacher

About This Quote

Source Book: The Center Cannot Hold, Marya Hornbacher, 2002

The speaker fears human connection because it exposes the self, leading to a feeling of emptiness and loss of identity.

In simple terms: Fear of intimacy makes one feel empty.

Key Takeaway

Embrace vulnerability to reclaim self.

Themes

fear identity humanity

Mood

reflective somber

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • relationships
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

anxiety selfhood existentialism

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does vulnerability reveal about you?
  • How can one rebuild self after emptiness?
A Different Perspective

It may oversimplify complex mental health issues.

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