Lonely people Quote by Marilynne Robinson
““Anyone with one solid human bond is that smug, and it is the smugness as much as the comfort and safety that lonely people covet and admire.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Housekeeping by Marilynne Robinson, 1980
Human connection provides both comfort and a sense of superiority, which lonely people both desire and resent.
In simple terms: Bonds give comfort and can make us feel smug.
Value genuine relationships over status.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- friendship building
- community involvement
- support groups
- mental health counseling
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you seek comfort or superiority in relationships?
- How does pride affect your friendships?
Smugness can alienate others and hinder deeper intimacy.