Assumption Quote by Mallory Ortberg
“Someone who has a disability is not necessarily in distress. You may be embarrassing and inconveniencing someone by butting in and making assumptions.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Unseen Disability, 2018
People with disabilities aren’t always in distress; assuming they need help can be embarrassing and inconvenient.
In simple terms: Assumptions about disability can cause harm.
Key Takeaway
Ask before assisting, respect autonomy.
Themes
disability
empathy
assumptions
social etiquette
Mood
thoughtful
cautious
Type
ethical
educational
When to use this quote
- public spaces
- social interactions
- service encounters
Key Concepts
ability‑first language
inclusion
personal boundaries
Questions to Reflect On
- When is it appropriate to intervene?
- How can you learn a person’s needs without assuming?
A Different Perspective
Well‑meaning help can feel patronizing if not requested.
