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Kindness Quote by Lois McMaster Bujold

“Any man can be kind when he is comfortable. I’d always thought kindness a trivial virtue, therefore. But when we were hungry, thirsty, sick, frightened, with our deaths shouting at us, in the heart of horror, you were still as unfailingly courteous as a gentleman at his ease before his own…” quote by Lois McMaster Bujold
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““Any man can be kind when he is comfortable. I’d always thought kindness a trivial virtue, therefore. But when we were hungry, thirsty, sick, frightened, with our deaths shouting at us, in the heart of horror, you were still as unfailingly courteous as a gentleman at his ease before his own hearth.” “Events may be horrible or inescapable. Men have always a choice—if not whether, then how, they may endure.””

Lois McMaster Bujold

About This Quote

Source Novel: “The Curse of Chalion” (or short story), 2001

Kindness persists even in extreme hardship, showing that moral character can remain steadfast despite fear and suffering.

In simple terms: Kindness endures in hardship.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate compassion even when distressed.

Themes

morality resilience humanity adversity

Mood

empathetic inspiring

Type

reflective motivational

When to use this quote

  • disaster relief
  • hospital care
  • prison mentorship
  • war zones
  • personal crises

Key Concepts

ethics psychology character development

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you maintain kindness under pressure?
  • What supports help sustain moral behavior in crises?
A Different Perspective

Kindness may be tested and not always reciprocated.

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