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Be kind Quote by Lois McMaster Bujold

“Any man can be kind when he is comfortable. I'd always thought kindness a trivial virtue, therefore. But when we were hungry, thirsty, sick, frightened, with our deaths shouting at us, in the heart of horror, you were still as unfailingly courteous as a gentleman at ease before his own hearth.” quote by Lois McMaster Bujold
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“Any man can be kind when he is comfortable. I'd always thought kindness a trivial virtue, therefore. But when we were hungry, thirsty, sick, frightened, with our deaths shouting at us, in the heart of horror, you were still as unfailingly courteous as a gentleman at ease before his own hearth.”

Lois McMaster Bujold

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Curse of Chalion by Lois McMaster Bujold, 2001

Kindness often appears only when people feel safe; hardship reveals true character.

In simple terms: Kindness shows when comfort is gone.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and nurture kindness in tough times.

Themes

compassion human nature comfort

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

observational ethical

When to use this quote

  • teamwork
  • crisis
  • leadership
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

psychology ethics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you maintain kindness when you feel threatened?
  • What does kindness look like under pressure?
A Different Perspective

Comfort can mask true character, making kindness seem optional.

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