““Much of the structure of the world, both social and physical, is a consequence of the requirement that the world, in its actuality, break symmetries present in the space of possibilities. An important feature of this requirement is the trade-off between symmetry and stability. The symmetric situation, in which we are all potentially friends and romantic partners, is unstable. In reality, we must make choices, and this leads to more stability. We trade the unstable freedom of potentiality for the stable experience of actuality.””