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“If you can't be kind, at least be vague.” quote by Judith Martin
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“If you can't be kind, at least be vague.”

Judith Martin

About This Quote

Source Book: The Book of Good Manners, 1990

If kindness fails, vague communication avoids unnecessary hurt.

In simple terms: When unkind, be vague to protect feelings.

Key Takeaway

Choose discretion over harshness.

Themes

kindness communication social etiquette

Mood

considerate pragmatic thoughtful

Type

ethical practical

When to use this quote

  • workplace feedback
  • family disagreements
  • online comments
  • customer service

Key Concepts

empathy boundary setting

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is honesty more valuable than politeness?
  • How can you be kind without being vague?
A Different Perspective

Vagueness can breed misunderstanding.

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