Advice Quote by Judith Martin
“If you can't be kind, at least be vague.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Book of Good Manners, 1990
If kindness fails, vague communication avoids unnecessary hurt.
In simple terms: When unkind, be vague to protect feelings.
Choose discretion over harshness.
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When to use this quote
- workplace feedback
- family disagreements
- online comments
- customer service
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When is honesty more valuable than politeness?
- How can you be kind without being vague?
Vagueness can breed misunderstanding.