Child Quote by Jonathan Berent
““Parents in particular often confuse nurturing with rescuing. To nurture is to empower —to provide the skills and information that will eventually allow for independent, productive living. To rescue is to enable —to perpetuate avoidance of the situation that caused the anxiety in the first place. Empowering should be the overriding goal of every parent. Empowerment allows a child of whatever age to face fears and take responsibility for his or her life.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Parenting Insights, 2021
Nurturing should teach skills for independence, while rescuing creates dependence.
In simple terms: Teach skills, avoid over‑protecting.
Key Takeaway
Focus on empowerment, not rescue.
Themes
parenting
empowerment
independence
anxiety
responsibility
Mood
concerned
hopeful
Type
advisory
reflective
When to use this quote
- raising teenagers
- helping anxious children
- coaching adults
- family counseling
Key Concepts
developmental psychology
attachment theory
skill building
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you tell when to step back?
- What skill does your child need most?
A Different Perspective
Rescue may be needed in emergencies, not as a default.
