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Changing mind Quote by Jonathan Ames

“Nothing wrong with changing your mind. That's a very unwaffling thing to say: "Nothing wrong..." Who am I to say that there's nothing wrong with it? Maybe something is wrong with changing your mind. Anyway, love is very, very difficult. I love. But probably because I hate myself on some deep, sick…” quote by Jonathan Ames
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“Nothing wrong with changing your mind. That's a very unwaffling thing to say: "Nothing wrong..." Who am I to say that there's nothing wrong with it? Maybe something is wrong with changing your mind. Anyway, love is very, very difficult. I love. But probably because I hate myself on some deep, sick level, it makes loving difficult. But I do try.”

Jonathan Ames

About This Quote

Source Interview: The Art of Writing, 2015

Changing one's mind is natural, yet love becomes tangled with self‑hate, making emotional honesty difficult.

In simple terms: Changing opinions is okay; love is complicated by self‑esteem.

Key Takeaway

Practice self‑compassion to improve relationships.

Themes

self‑esteem love personal growth

Mood

introspective vulnerable

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • creative writing
  • relationship counseling
  • self‑help

Key Concepts

psychology literature relationships

Questions to Reflect On

  • What internal barriers hinder your love?
  • How can you balance self‑criticism with self‑acceptance?
A Different Perspective

Self‑criticism may block authentic connection.

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