Changing mind Quote by Jonathan Ames
“Nothing wrong with changing your mind. That's a very unwaffling thing to say: "Nothing wrong..." Who am I to say that there's nothing wrong with it? Maybe something is wrong with changing your mind. Anyway, love is very, very difficult. I love. But probably because I hate myself on some deep, sick level, it makes loving difficult. But I do try.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: The Art of Writing, 2015
Changing one's mind is natural, yet love becomes tangled with self‑hate, making emotional honesty difficult.
In simple terms: Changing opinions is okay; love is complicated by self‑esteem.
Practice self‑compassion to improve relationships.
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When to use this quote
- therapy
- creative writing
- relationship counseling
- self‑help
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What internal barriers hinder your love?
- How can you balance self‑criticism with self‑acceptance?
Self‑criticism may block authentic connection.