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Friendship Quote by John Marsden

“I remember Robyn saying once ‘Talking about yourself can be selfish or generous’. When I asked what she meant, she said: ‘If you never talk about yourself, about your problems and stuff, that’s selfish, because you’re not giving your friends a chance to help you. And if you talk about yourself all…” quote by John Marsden
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““I remember Robyn saying once ‘Talking about yourself can be selfish or generous’. When I asked what she meant, she said: ‘If you never talk about yourself, about your problems and stuff, that’s selfish, because you’re not giving your friends a chance to help you. And if you talk about yourself all the time, you’re selfish and boring.””

John Marsden

About This Quote

Sharing personal struggles invites support, while over‑talking can alienate listeners; balance is key in friendships.

In simple terms: Talk about yourself to get help, but not too much.

Key Takeaway

Find a healthy balance in self‑disclosure.

Themes

friendship self‑disclosure balance

Mood

empathetic thoughtful

Type

advice inspirational

When to use this quote

  • support groups
  • personal conversations
  • therapy

Key Concepts

psychology communication

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is it appropriate to share?
  • How can we encourage others to open up?
A Different Perspective

Too much sharing can become burdensome.

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