Action Quote by John Flanagan
“Once you best a man, never gloat. Be generous and find something in his actions to praise. He won't enjoy being bested but he'll make a good face about it. Show him you appreciate it. Praise can win you a friend. Gloating will only ever make enemies.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Ranger's Apprentice, 2004
Winning should be followed by humility; praising others builds goodwill, while gloating creates enemies.
In simple terms: Be humble and praise.
Key Takeaway
Show appreciation, avoid arrogance.
Themes
humility
gratitude
friendship
Mood
thoughtful
instructive
Type
motivational
ethical
When to use this quote
- team leadership
- peer feedback
- conflict mediation
- personal mentoring
Key Concepts
social etiquette
leadership development
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you give genuine praise?
- When is it appropriate to acknowledge your own success?
A Different Perspective
Praise may be perceived as insincere if overused.
