Big deal Quote by John Bytheway
“If your only nice to the people that are nice to you, big deal; what do you want, a gist certificate? Everyone does that. And if you only say "hi" in the hall to the people that say hi to you, what are doing more than anyone else? Maybe you know people who are different when they're alone than when they're with their friends. they might say "hi" to you if your alone, but with a group they act like they've never seen you.”
About This Quote
Source Speech: Unknown motivational talk, 2020
Reciprocity is superficial; genuine connection requires reaching beyond those who only respond when you do, seeking authenticity with all.
In simple terms: Don’t limit kindness to those who are kind first.
Key Takeaway
Practice unconditional generosity.
Themes
kindness
authenticity
social dynamics
reciprocity
growth
Mood
thoughtful
inspirational
challenging
Type
motivational
advice
When to use this quote
- networking events
- daily interactions
- team meetings
- community service
Key Concepts
social psychology
human behavior
relationship building
Questions to Reflect On
- What would happen if you showed kindness first?
- How can you balance generosity with self‑care?
A Different Perspective
People may feel pressured or taken advantage of.
