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Children Quote by John Bradshaw

“According to Pia Mellody, when “one parent has a relationship with the child that is more important than the relationship he or she has with the spouse, and that parent has unresolved sexual issues, a strong possibility exists that the child will be emotionally sexually abused.” quote by John Bradshaw
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““According to Pia Mellody, when “one parent has a relationship with the child that is more important than the relationship he or she has with the spouse, and that parent has unresolved sexual issues, a strong possibility exists that the child will be emotionally sexually abused.””

John Bradshaw

About This Quote

Source Book: Healing the Shame that Binds You by John Bradshaw, 1990

When a parent prioritizes the child over the spouse and carries unresolved sexual issues, the child risks emotional sexual abuse.

In simple terms: Parental focus and unresolved sexuality can harm a child.

Key Takeaway

Protect children by addressing adult sexual issues.

Themes

family dynamics sexuality abuse boundaries

Mood

concerned protective

Type

advisory educational

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • parenting workshops
  • therapy sessions
  • child protection policies

Key Concepts

psychology family systems emotional safety

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can families recognize and address hidden sexual issues?
  • What safeguards can protect children in such dynamics?
A Different Perspective

Children may still be harmed even if the parent is unaware of the risk.

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