Able Quote by Jodi Picoult
“Most people who offer their help do it to make themselves feel better, not us. To be honest, I don't blame them. It's superstition: If you give assistance to the family in need... if you throw salt over your shoulder... if you don't step on the cracks, then maybe you'll be immune. Maybe you'll be able to convince yourself that this could never happen to you.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: My Sister's Keeper by Jodi Picoult, 2004
People often help others to soothe their own anxieties, using superstition as a coping mechanism.
In simple terms: Help can be self‑serving, driven by fear.
Key Takeaway
Recognize when aid is self‑comfort, not genuine concern.
Themes
psychology
motivation
self‑service
superstition
Mood
reflective
empathetic
Type
advice
psychological
When to use this quote
- family crises
- friend support
- community volunteering
- personal counseling
Key Concepts
altruism
cognitive bias
defense mechanisms
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do you help others?
- How does superstition shape your actions?
A Different Perspective
Self‑serving aid may neglect real needs of recipients.
