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Happiness Quote by Jean de la Bruyere

“We wish to constitute all the happiness, or, if that cannot be, the misery of the one we love.” quote by Jean de la Bruyere
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“We wish to constitute all the happiness, or, if that cannot be, the misery of the one we love.”

Jean de la Bruyere

About This Quote

People often prioritize the happiness of loved ones over personal comfort, sometimes accepting personal suffering for their wellbeing.

In simple terms: We sacrifice self for loved ones’ happiness.

Key Takeaway

Love can drive self‑sacrifice, even into misery.

Themes

love self‑sacrifice ethics emotional bonds

Mood

empathetic somber

Type

moral philosophical

When to use this quote

  • caring for an ill parent
  • supporting a partner’s career
  • donating time to charity
  • making personal sacrifices for a child

Key Concepts

altruism moral dilemma

Practical Applications

  • communicate boundaries while caring
  • evaluate the cost of sacrifice

Questions to Reflect On

  • When does self‑sacrifice become unhealthy?
  • How can we balance personal wellbeing with caring for others?
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