Happiness Quote by Jean de la Bruyere
“We wish to constitute all the happiness, or, if that cannot be, the misery of the one we love.”
About This Quote
People often prioritize the happiness of loved ones over personal comfort, sometimes accepting personal suffering for their wellbeing.
In simple terms: We sacrifice self for loved ones’ happiness.
Love can drive self‑sacrifice, even into misery.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- caring for an ill parent
- supporting a partner’s career
- donating time to charity
- making personal sacrifices for a child
Key Concepts
Practical Applications
- communicate boundaries while caring
- evaluate the cost of sacrifice
Questions to Reflect On
- When does self‑sacrifice become unhealthy?
- How can we balance personal wellbeing with caring for others?