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Communication Quote by Jane Austen

“My dearest Emma," said he, "for dearest you will always be, whatever the event of this hour's conversation, my dearest, most beloved Emma -- tell me at once. Say 'No,' if it is to be said." She could really say nothing. "You are silent," he cried, with great animation; "absolutely silent! at…” quote by Jane Austen
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““My dearest Emma," said he, "for dearest you will always be, whatever the event of this hour's conversation, my dearest, most beloved Emma -- tell me at once. Say 'No,' if it is to be said." She could really say nothing. "You are silent," he cried, with great animation; "absolutely silent! at present I ask no more." Emma was almost ready to sink under the agitation of this moment. The dread of being awakened from the happiest dream, was perhaps the most prominent feeling. "I cannot make speeches, Emma," he soon resumed; and in a tone of such sincere, decided, intelligible tenderness as was tolerably convincing. "If I loved you less, I might be able to talk about it more. But you know what I am. You hear nothing but truth from me. I have blamed you, and lectured you, and you have borne it as no other woman in England would have borne it. Bear with the truths I would tell you now, dearest Emma, as well as you have borne with them. The manner, perhaps, may have as little to recommend them. God knows, I have been a very indifferent lover. But you understand me. Yes, you see, you understand my feelings and will return them if you can. At present, I ask only to hear, once to hear your voice.””

Jane Austen

About This Quote

Source Novel: Emma, 1815

The speaker pleads for honest, heartfelt communication, acknowledging his own flaws and longing for genuine connection.

In simple terms: He wants sincere dialogue despite his imperfections.

Key Takeaway

Speak truthfully, even when vulnerable.

Themes

love communication vulnerability

Mood

romantic intimate

Type

literary emotional

When to use this quote

  • romantic confession
  • conflict resolution
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

honesty self‑awareness

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we express love without fear?
  • What prevents honest dialogue in relationships?
A Different Perspective

Fear of rejection may hinder openness.

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