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Marriage Quote by James Salter

“THERE ARE THINGS I LOVE ABOUT marriage. I love the familiarity of it,” Nedra said. “It’s like a tattoo. You wanted it at the time, you have it, it’s implanted in your skin, you can’t get rid of it. You’re hardly even aware of it any more. I suppose I’m very conventional,” she decided.” quote by James Salter
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““THERE ARE THINGS I LOVE ABOUT marriage. I love the familiarity of it,” Nedra said. “It’s like a tattoo. You wanted it at the time, you have it, it’s implanted in your skin, you can’t get rid of it. You’re hardly even aware of it any more. I suppose I’m very conventional,” she decided.””

James Salter

About This Quote

Source Novel: A Summons to the World, James Salter, 1970

Marriage can feel like a permanent imprint, familiar and hard to remove, reflecting conventional comfort.

In simple terms: Marriage feels like a lasting tattoo.

Key Takeaway

Recognize the comfort and constraints of tradition.

Themes

marriage comfort tradition

Mood

reflective nostalgic

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • long‑term partnership
  • family planning
  • social expectations

Key Concepts

sociology personal identity

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you feel trapped by tradition?
  • What aspects of marriage feel like a tattoo?
A Different Perspective

Conformity may limit personal growth.

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