Friendship Quote by James Hilton
““Cigars had burned low, and we were beginning to sample the disillusionment that usually afflicts old school friends who have met again as men and found themselves with less in common than they had believed they had.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Lost Horizon, 1933
Reunion of old friends reveals growing alienation and disillusionment as they realize they have drifted apart.
In simple terms: Old friends feel distant when they meet again.
Key Takeaway
Acknowledge change and communicate openly with old acquaintances.
Themes
friendship
nostalgia
disillusionment
aging
identity crisis
Mood
reflective
melancholy
thoughtful
Type
literary
observational
When to use this quote
- reunion gatherings
- career networking events
- family reunions
- alumni meetings
- online catch‑ups
Key Concepts
psychological distance
expectation vs reality
life transitions
Questions to Reflect On
- What expectations do we bring to reunions that cause disappointment?
- How can we bridge gaps formed by time?
A Different Perspective
The quote assumes all reunions are negative, ignoring possible reconnections.
