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Decency Quote by J.M. Coetzee

“Decency: the inexplicable: the ground of all ethics. Things we do not do. We do not stare when the soul leaves the body, but veil our eyes with tears or cover them with our hands. We do not stare at scars, which are places where the soul has struggled to leave and been forced back, closed up, sewn…” quote by J.M. Coetzee
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““Decency: the inexplicable: the ground of all ethics. Things we do not do. We do not stare when the soul leaves the body, but veil our eyes with tears or cover them with our hands. We do not stare at scars, which are places where the soul has struggled to leave and been forced back, closed up, sewn in.””

J.M. Coetzee

About This Quote

Source Novel: Disgrace, 1999

Decency is an unseen moral foundation; we avoid confronting suffering directly, preferring to hide or ignore it.

In simple terms: Decency hides suffering from view.

Key Takeaway

Acknowledge and confront moral discomfort.

Themes

ethics human suffering avoidance visibility

Mood

somber introspective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • Healthcare settings
  • conflict zones
  • personal grief
  • social injustice

Key Concepts

Moral Philosophy Existentialism Psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do we avoid looking at pain?
  • What does confronting decency reveal about ourselves?
A Different Perspective

Facing suffering can be overwhelming and may cause distress.

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