Decency Quote by J.M. Coetzee
““Decency: the inexplicable: the ground of all ethics. Things we do not do. We do not stare when the soul leaves the body, but veil our eyes with tears or cover them with our hands. We do not stare at scars, which are places where the soul has struggled to leave and been forced back, closed up, sewn in.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Disgrace, 1999
Decency is an unseen moral foundation; we avoid confronting suffering directly, preferring to hide or ignore it.
In simple terms: Decency hides suffering from view.
Acknowledge and confront moral discomfort.
Themes
Mood
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When to use this quote
- Healthcare settings
- conflict zones
- personal grief
- social injustice
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we avoid looking at pain?
- What does confronting decency reveal about ourselves?
Facing suffering can be overwhelming and may cause distress.