Bad weather Quote by J.M. Coetzee
““...he seems to be on the brink of one of his bad spells again, one of the fits of lugubrious self-pity that turn into black gloom. He likes to think that they comes from elsewhere, episodes of bad weather that cross the sky and pass on. He prefers not to think they come from inside him and are his, part of him.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Disgrace, 1999
Self‑pity externalizes inner pain, blaming external forces instead of confronting it.
In simple terms: Blaming outside avoids inner work.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and own personal struggles.
Themes
psychology
self‑awareness
emotions
avoidance
Mood
introspective
somber
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- therapy
- personal reflection
- conflict resolution
- stress management
Key Concepts
cognitive dissonance
self‑compassion
mental health
Questions to Reflect On
- What internal feelings are you attributing to external events?
- How does acknowledging inner pain change your response?
A Different Perspective
Denial can hinder growth and relationships.
