Body love Quote by J. Krishnamurti
““Why is there this everlasting craving to be loved? Listen carefully. You want to be loved because you do not love; but the moment you love, it is finished, you are no longer inquiring wether or not somebody loves you. As long as you demand to be loved, there is no love in you; and if you feel no love you are ugly, brutish, so why should you be loved?””
About This Quote
Source Lecture: The Nature of Desire, 1970
He argues that seeking love for validation prevents authentic love, which arises from self‑acceptance.
In simple terms: Desire for love blocks true love.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate self‑love instead of seeking approval.
Themes
love
self‑acceptance
desire
identity
Mood
contemplative
philosophical
Type
inspirational
reflective
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- therapy sessions
- mindfulness practice
- creative expression
Key Concepts
attachment
ego
inner peace
Questions to Reflect On
- What does love mean to you without expectations?
- How can you nurture inner compassion?
A Different Perspective
Self‑love can be difficult to sustain without external validation.
