Craving Quote by C. S. Lewis
“What we called love down there was mostly the craving to be loved. In the main I loved you for my own sake: because I needed you...We shall have no need for one another now: we can begin to love truly.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Four Loves by C. S. Lewis, 1960
Love is often driven by personal need rather than genuine selfless affection; true love emerges when we let go of self‑interest.
In simple terms: Love can be selfish, but true love is selfless.
Key Takeaway
Seek love without expecting reward.
Themes
love
self‑interest
growth
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- friendships
- family dynamics
- self‑help
- spiritual practice
Key Concepts
psychology
philosophy
relationships
Questions to Reflect On
- What does love mean to you beyond personal need?
- How can you practice selfless love?
A Different Perspective
True love still requires vulnerability and mutual effort.
