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Craving Quote by C. S. Lewis

“...if all we mean by our love is a craving to be loved, we are in a very deplorable state.” quote by C. S. Lewis
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“...if all we mean by our love is a craving to be loved, we are in a very deplorable state.”

C. S. Lewis

About This Quote

Source Book: The Four Loves by C. S. Lewis, 1960

Love reduced to self‑centred craving signals a shallow, unhealthy emotional state.

In simple terms: Love should be selfless, not just a desire to be loved.

Key Takeaway

Seek deeper, reciprocal love.

Themes

love self‑esteem human nature

Mood

reflective serious

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • therapy
  • spiritual growth

Key Concepts

psychology existentialism relationships

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you love for yourself or for others?
  • How can you cultivate selfless love?
A Different Perspective

Self‑centered love can become narcissistic and isolating.

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