Craving Quote by C. S. Lewis
“...if all we mean by our love is a craving to be loved, we are in a very deplorable state.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Four Loves by C. S. Lewis, 1960
Love reduced to self‑centred craving signals a shallow, unhealthy emotional state.
In simple terms: Love should be selfless, not just a desire to be loved.
Seek deeper, reciprocal love.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- therapy
- spiritual growth
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you love for yourself or for others?
- How can you cultivate selfless love?
Self‑centered love can become narcissistic and isolating.