Friendship Quote by Frances Hodgson Burnett
““There mostly is rats an’ mice in attics. You gets used to the noise they makes scuttling about. I’ve got so I don’t mind ’em s’ long as they don’t run over my piller.” “Ugh!” said Sara. “You gets used to anythin’ after a bit,” said Becky. “You have to, miss, if you’re born a scullery maid. I’d rather have rats than cockroaches.” “So would I,” said Sara; “I suppose you might make friends with a rat in time, but I don’t believe I should like to make friends with a cockroach.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Secret Garden, Frances Hodgson Burnett, 1911
People adapt to uncomfortable conditions, finding comfort in familiar irritations.
In simple terms: We get used to unpleasant things over time.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and challenge harmful adaptations.
Themes
adaptation
comfort
environment
social hierarchy
coping
Mood
reflective
empathetic
Type
literary
social commentary
When to use this quote
- working in low‑status jobs
- living with pests
- accepting undesirable habits
- building tolerance
Key Concepts
Resilience
normalization
social conditioning
Questions to Reflect On
- What comforts do you accept that could be harmful?
- How can you change an unhealthy environment?
A Different Perspective
May romanticize suffering and ignore the desire for better conditions.
