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Death Quote by Ellen Bass

“To love life, to love it even when you have no stomach for it. when grief weights you like your own flesh only more of it, an obesity of grief, you think, How can a body withstand this? Then you hold life like a face between your palms, a plain face, no charming smile, no violet eyes, and you say…” quote by Ellen Bass
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“To love life, to love it even when you have no stomach for it. when grief weights you like your own flesh only more of it, an obesity of grief, you think, How can a body withstand this? Then you hold life like a face between your palms, a plain face, no charming smile, no violet eyes, and you say, yes, I will take you, I will love you, again.”

Ellen Bass

About This Quote

Source Poem: "The Weight of Grief" by Ellen Bass, 1995

Even when grief feels overwhelming and physical, we can choose to embrace life despite its plainness and pain.

In simple terms: Choosing love despite heavy grief.

Key Takeaway

Embrace life, even when it feels burdensome.

Themes

grief love resilience acceptance

Mood

somber hopeful

Type

reflective inspirational

When to use this quote

  • personal loss
  • mental health
  • daily coping
  • support groups

Key Concepts

existentialism emotional endurance mindfulness

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you hold love when grief feels heavy?
  • What small actions keep you connected to life?
A Different Perspective

Grief may persist despite acceptance, requiring ongoing support.

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