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Compassion Quote by Don Richard Riso

“The process of transforming the heart can be difficult because as we open it, we inevitably encounter our own pain and become more aware of the pain of others. In fact, much of our personality is designed to keep us from experiencing this suffering. We close down the sensitivity of our hearts so…” quote by Don Richard Riso
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““The process of transforming the heart can be difficult because as we open it, we inevitably encounter our own pain and become more aware of the pain of others. In fact, much of our personality is designed to keep us from experiencing this suffering. We close down the sensitivity of our hearts so that we can block our pain and get on with things, but we are never entirely successful in avoiding it. Often, we are aware of our suffering just enough to make ourselves and everyone around us miserable. Carl Jung's famous dictum that "neurosis is a substitute for legitimate suffering" points to this truth. But if we are not willing to experience our own hurt and grief, it can never be healed. Shutting out our real pain also renders us unable to feel joy, compassion, love, or any of the other capacities of the heart.””

Don Richard Riso

About This Quote

Opening the heart reveals personal pain and empathy, essential for healing and joy.

In simple terms: Opening heart reveals pain and empathy.

Key Takeaway

Allow pain to foster growth.

Themes

empathy healing self-awareness psychology

Mood

introspective empathetic

Type

philosophical psychological

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • mindfulness practice
  • relationship building
  • creative expression

Key Concepts

Jungian theory emotional intelligence

Questions to Reflect On

  • Are you willing to face your own hurt?
  • How does sharing pain affect others?
A Different Perspective

Avoiding pain can stunt personal development.

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