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Condolences Quote by Diane Setterfield

“A hundred hands wanted shaking, a hundred tongues expressed their condolences. Thank you, said William, and Kind of you, endlessly. Between his uncle and the helpfulness of the Misses Young and all these other people, William was never alone, not for an hour, except to sleep. He went to bed with…” quote by Diane Setterfield
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““A hundred hands wanted shaking, a hundred tongues expressed their condolences. Thank you, said William, and Kind of you, endlessly. Between his uncle and the helpfulness of the Misses Young and all these other people, William was never alone, not for an hour, except to sleep. He went to bed with the distant, certain expectation that overnight the world would put itself right. He slept for long hours: endless, dreamless sleep, which did not refresh, and when he woke the world bewildered him by persisting in its wayward course. He felt weighted down and dreary. A fog settled between him and his own thoughts, and behind it, unformulated, unexamined, was this: How long before things go back to normal? His mother was dead: he had seen the body; yet this knowledge refused to find a settled place in his mind. It came and went, surprised him every time he chanced upon it, and there were a million reasons not to believe it. His mother was dead, but look: here were her clothes and here her tea cups, here her Sunday hat on the shelf over the coat hook. His mother was dead, but hark: the garden gate! Any moment now she would come through the door.””

Diane Setterfield

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Thirteenth Tale by Diane Setterfield, 2006

A grieving man clings to hope that loss will be undone, but reality persists, leaving him in a fog of denial and yearning for normalcy.

In simple terms: He struggles to accept his mother’s death, hoping for a miracle.

Key Takeaway

Acknowledge grief, seek support, and allow healing.

Themes

grief denial hope loneliness memory

Mood

sad reflective hopeful

Type

literary emotional philosophical

When to use this quote

  • family loss
  • coping with death
  • seeking comfort
  • daily routines
  • memory triggers

Key Concepts

psychology mourning illusion acceptance

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does hope help or hinder healing?
  • What rituals can ground you in reality?
A Different Perspective

Denial can delay necessary mourning and prolong suffering.

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