Our brain comes hard-wired with an urge to play, one that…
“Our brain comes hard-wired with an urge to play, one that hurls us into sociability. A child's play both demands and creates its own safe space, one in which she can confront threats, fears, and dangers, but always come through whole. Play offers a child a natural way to manage feared separations or abandonment, rendering them instead opportunities for mastery and self-discovery.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman, 1995
Play is an innate drive that fosters social connection and helps children safely confront and master fears, leading to personal growth.
In simple terms: Play helps kids face fears and grow socially.
Key Takeaway
Encourage safe, playful experiences for children.
Themes
development
socialization
emotional growth
resilience
Mood
hopeful
reflective
optimistic
Type
educational
psychological
inspirational
When to use this quote
- childhood education
- therapy sessions
- family bonding
- team building
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
attachment theory
self‑discovery
mastery
Questions to Reflect On
- How can play be structured to support emotional healing?
- What limits does play have in developing resilience?
A Different Perspective
Play may not address deeper trauma without guided support.