Activity Quote by D. H. Lawrence
“There is a brief time for sex, and a long time when sex is out of place. But when it is out of place as an activity there still should be the large and quiet space in the consciousness where it lives quiescent. Old people can have a lovely quiescent sort of sex, like apples, leaving the young quite free for their sort.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Function of the Sexes, 1920
Sexual desire has moments of urgency and periods of quiet, and as people age, intimacy can become a calm, background presence while younger individuals pursue active experiences.
In simple terms: Sex can be intense or calm, changing with age and context.
Key Takeaway
Respect the natural rhythms of sexual desire across life stages.
Themes
intimacy
age
desire
timing
human nature
Mood
thoughtful
accepting
contemplative
Type
philosophical
social
relationship
When to use this quote
- long-term relationships
- elderly care
- relationship counseling
- personal growth
- sexual education
Key Concepts
life cycle
sexual fluidity
social expectations
Questions to Reflect On
- How does your perception of sexuality evolve with age?
- What space do you give for quiet intimacy?
A Different Perspective
Cultural norms may limit open discussion of age‑related sexual changes.
